Cultivating Your Love

There is more to great sex than the physical act of intercourse. How we feel about ourselves and our partners and what we are experiencing in our lives play important parts in pleasurable and satisfying sex.

In cultivating a healthy male sexuality, many of us can benefit from learning to feel more deeply and to express our feelings more freely. When it comes to sex, our ability to express not only our desires, but also our love and affection for our partners is critical to a healthy and sexy relationship.

It has been said that self-love must come before love for another. Find your love and experience what it’s like to focus on the feelings love evokes.

Once we have learned to feel and experience our love, we can practice expressing it. In practicing the open and free expression of our love for our lover, we discover that love is limitless and effortless.

Work through feelings of awkwardness and self-judgment. Practice communicating your feelings and listening to the feelings, needs and desires of your partner.

Learn to express your love in a multitude of ways. Touch, caress, kiss, seduce, and play with your lover. Honor your lover by expressing your love freely. With practice, you will notice increased sexual desire, arousal, passion and pleasure.